Yesterday I threw away all the principles I’d been taught. Everything my parents ever taught me, flushed down the drain. My inheritance. Being gay was not against my family’s values.Giving my my diploma as en engineer, becoming an independent designer, living with my parents almost until I got thirty, all of that was unimportant. For the first time I’ve done something that really goes against everything they taught me, and I’m really ashamed — and it took me twenty-four hours to muster the courage to post this. So, here goes. I signed up for a real credit card.